I received a ton of great comments on my recent post personifying the typical American woman. Not surprisingly, few girls decided to contribute by adding their valuable perspectives as well.
Of them, “Eurogirl” did an excellent job of validating my post in one long run on sentence:
And, by the way: I speak four languages, I’m well read, well travelled, have exquisite interests such as philosophy, art, medieval music, dark ambient clubs, I love watching sports, going to museums, concerts, markets, etc.
[more validation clipped]
Roosh’s comment was right on the money, but in case someone misunderstood, let me explain.
Since I feel a bit generous today, I will let Eurogirl and other hapless girls like her in on a little secret. What Eurogirl doesn’t understand is that everything that she has allegedly accomplished above means absolutely nothing to the average male.
Absolutely, undoubtedly, unconditionally, unquestionably, unambiguously nothing.
The dirty little secret is that men don’t care whether you have a PhD, a Masters, or a Bachelors.
Men don’t care whether you like medieval or classical music.
Men don’t care whether you like museums or watching paint dry.
Men don’t care whether you speak 50 languages, or have been to Mars.
Yeah, I know the media, magazines, and “relationship experts” say otherwise.
When I meet a girl that can’t stop talking about her work, my eyes automatically start scanning for the nearest exit.
What men want is a woman — a real woman. A woman who oozes femininity. A classy, elegant woman that supports her man on the street and rocks his world between the sheets. A confident woman that knows how to flirt, how to cock (or open to learning), and how to please a man.
(For Mad Men (great show, btw) fans: think Don Draper’s new French wife, and not that annoying and unattractive man-wannabe copywriter, Peggy)
In return, she will get a real man who will know how to please her.
You know why you never see beautiful, feminine girls of the world validating themselves to blog posts? Because they’re all being fucked their brains out by real, confident men.
PS: Regarding the Ukraine comment. I’m not so sure I’d be making that comment being from the country you’re.
Genuine Asshole wrote:
Was in New York Last summer.
-Met a girl who was a DJ, Who invited me to a bunch of wild parties. Took me around New York, pointing out where many celebrities live, told me about the underground music scene
-Met a girl who was studying Art Major, who took me to a bunch of museums who she knew all surprisingly well. And a couple of art gallery opening ( open bar FTW)
- Met a girl who worked as a volunteer around the world in poor nations as both a teacher and a nurse. Introduced me to her friends, had a massive roof party for 4th of july.
You just have to decide what you are looking for … The rest wear converse shoes and
So American girls do other things other than going to the movies? Who knew. In all seriousness, I’m glad you found a girl to show you around NYC.
Now, you asked me to decide what I’m looking for.
Allow me to tell you what I’m looking for:
I’m looking for a girl that doesn’t immediately accuse a man of following some “X day rule” after he calls to setup a future date.
I’m looking for a girl who doesn’t return a sarcastic comment every time she is caught off-balance with my non-scripted flirting and doesn’t have a scripted answer to my question or comment.
I’m looking for a girl who’s confident enough to flirt with a man without needing to be drunk, or without suddenly getting uncomfortable when a man flirts with her in a way she’s never experienced in real life or seen on Jersey Shore.
I’m looking for a girl with emotional intelligence that can intuitively judge a man and not turn the date into a job interview if the man doesn’t spill his life story within the first date or two.
I’m looking for a girl who makes the interaction fun, not some chess match where I have to carefully plan what I say and how I act.
Those qualities simply don’t exist within the American female species.
I received an email from a fellow Eastern European New Yorker who provided this insight:
That was a cruel and funny post. The girl you went out with sounds like a typical Italian/Russian-American princess. I completely empathize with your situation, as I deal with girls like this ALL the time.
Now what you should’ve done is just played her game, because these girls are so damn easy! Answer her stupid questions, listen to her stupid stories, tease her a bit more than usual. Just stick to basic New York game and you could’ve been fucking her in no time.
That’s a great point, and I personally know many guys that clean up with girls like her. The problem is that once you venture outside America, and start meeting and dating beautiful, sexy and confident women from countries like Mexico, Colombia, Brazil, Romania and Ukraine, your standards and expectations radically change.
Sadly, American girls begin to pale in comparison in all categories except maybe fast, albeit sloppy and drunk, sex. But even that is rapidly losing its appeal when you can get a whole package in the girl of your dreams abroad.
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